Kya aap apne Bachche ke best Freind hain?

Aaj ki bhaag daud bhari zindagi mein bachche aur perents ke beech kafi dooriyan badh gayi hain. Jisse ki bachche agar kuch kehna chahe phir bhee nahin keh pate hain, jiska asar bachhon par kahin na kahin bahut bura pad raha hai. Kyunki aise mein bachche sochne lagte hain ki maan-baap ko unaki parwah nahin hai, aur yahi kaaran hai ki donon ke beech dooriyan banane lagti hain.

Halanki, parents ko chahiye ki apne office ya ghar ke kamon se, apne bachchon ke liye keemati samay jaroor nikal. Kyon Ki, bachchon ki achchhi parwarish ke liye aapka unke saath bonding banana bahut jaroori hai, jisse ki bachche aapas sari baaten share kar saken.

Aise mein kuch rakeebon ke jariye aap apne bachche ke best freind ban sakate hain, jinamen nimn shaamil hain-

  • Bachhon ke saath quality time bitayen- Apne bachche ke saath har vah ek pal bitayen jis ke vah haqdaar hain. Aise mein office se aane ke baad apne bachche ke saath jaroor baithe, baaten karen. Itana hee nahin veekend par unhen kaheen bahar ghumane le jayen. Unake saath khoob samay bitayen aur unhen unke maujoodagi ka ehsaas dilayen, yakeen maniye aap jald hee unake saath apne rishte mein badlaav mehsoos karenge.

  • Unhen unake khas hone ka ehsaas dilayen- Apne bachchon ko pyaar den, aur unhen apne kareeb aane ka mauka den. Saath hee un se unke doston ke baare mein bhee baat karen jisase ki vah aap se sahaj mehsoos karenge. Isake alava aap apne bachche ko comfort jone mein laen, unase pyar bhari baaten karen jisase ki unhen aap ke khaas hone ka ehsaas ho.

  • Ghar ke niyamo ko sakht na banaye- Yeh bilkul sach hai ki ghar ke niyam khadye jitane shakht hote hain bachche utne hee dabe sahare hote hain, kyonki vah apni baaton ko khul kar nahin kah pate hain. Aise mein koshish karen ki ghar ke kayade-kaanoon zyada sakht na hon. Agar aap kisi prakar ka koyi kayda-kanoon bana rahen hon, to usamen apne bachche ko zaroor shamil karen.

  • Dost banaane mein rok-tok na karen- Yadi aapke bachche ke dost hai to isme jyada dakhalandaazi na den, lekin haan is baat ka jaroor dhyan rakhen ki unake doston ka chunaav sahee ho. Saath unke doston se bhi baat karen.

  • Tanav se rakhen door- Bachche bahut jald tanav mein aa jaate hain, kyonki unke andar yeh bhavana bhee hotee hai ki kahin mummy-paapa naaraz na ho jaen. ve apnee taraf se aapko khush rakhane kee koshish karte hain. un par itanee apeksha na laden ki ve tanav mein aa jayen.

 

Aise mein yadi in kuch baaton ko dhyan mein rakh kar aage chale, to zindagi ke sabse khaas rishte ko sambhal sakate hain. Saath hi apne bachche ke best badee banane se aapako koi nahin rok sakata hai. Kyonki ek pita ke liye uske bachchon kee khushee se badhkar kuch nahin hota.

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